Ali’s Mental Meanderings

wandering, not lost

Only a number

Something that has been discussed in various circles lately is age. While out with some colleagues on Friday night the topic arose and not for the first time has somebody been surprised that I’m 25. This person was actually agape, later explaining that they’d thought me to be closer to 21 and that I didn’t look 25 at all. On my birthday last year in a different workplace I had colleagues asking me if I’d finished high school the previous year. When I look in the mirror I don’t see an 18 or even a 21 year old. In conversation when the topic of age comes up, majority of people will guess I’m 23.

The point to the post is that I continually observe how age seems to be less important than your achievements, passions and outlooks. At a different event I was among a group where the exclamation of ‘I can’t believe you’re only 23’ was the response to a story about somebody and what they had done during recent years. Majority of my social and professional interactions involve people across a very diverse age group. My friends group age range exceeds 25 years between youngest and oldest. In recent years age seems to matter less when it comes to determining who you talk to and befriend, especially among technology people. What keeps us all so young? Our areas of passion are young and vibrant to many; do we tend to adopt those characteristics and to non-tech people appear much younger than our years?

What I’d like to find out is whether the age barrier breakdown is occuring amongst non-technology people. What about groups in other countries or even different parts of Australia? I think it’s great that I know and have built friendships with people of varying ages. Experience comes with age and develops into widsom. Sharing of wisdom is something that people can always benefit from.


March 9, 2008 - Posted by | Uncategorized | , ,


  1. You’ve been tagged by the white rabbit!

    Comment by Catherine | March 18, 2008 | Reply

  2. I agree!

    A lot of people actually think I’m older because I have a very logical and mature outlook on life. In a way I wish I was still 19, I felt younger and now I just feel old. My twenties, gasp!

    When you are in your teens though, I think this doesn’t really apply – when I was in High School though I spoke to people older than me through family, it wasn’t until I started my first full time job that I realised age wasn’t a factor. And it isn’t – it’s all about how you connect with them 🙂

    I’m a bit of an immature little girl sometimes but everyone’s entitled to that (in my opinion). But I’ve had quite mature conversations with people double my age, even more than that, and get along quite well with everyone older than I 🙂

    Comment by Monnie | May 14, 2008 | Reply

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